Birthday Abundance Roadmap
Your birthday is a magical day!
My family and friends will tell you that I have always been the over-the-top person who goes all out to plan perfect birthday parties, making every detail extra special. From turning our playroom into an actual stage for a magician's party to covering the ceiling lights with blue gel, painting all the windows blue, and insisting on bathing suit attire for the Ariel underwater Enchanted birthday party. To be honest, the bathing suits were requested by the birthday girl herself so we all made her dreams come true! Apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
But birthdays are about so much more than just parties.
Our birthday is the day the sun returns to the precise spot it was on the day we were born. This day of solar return is a microcosmic moment that sets the stage for the macrocosm of the year. What happens on your birthday determines what will happen during your year. Your intentions are auspiciously powerful and your actions have even more potent reaching for the tone and results for your year.
I can’t stress this enough! What you do on your birthday matters.
And I believe people know this subconsciously. My birthday meditations are the most viewed meditations on my YouTube channel. I believe people intuitively know it is a day to connect and feel the poignancy of their soul and life plan.
How can we maximize the spiritual potency of this incredible day? Here is the Love.Heal.Thrive.Birthday Abundance Roadmap of the birthday steps to draw in incredible abundance for your year.
Grab your calendar! My best advice is for you to schedule these now and place on annual repeat and schedule this to resend back to yourself on your birthday to bask in this powerful life-changing birthday process.
Each of the following processes help us to raise our energetic frequency. As we raise our energetic frequency before heading into our next year, we will magnetize and attract more blessings and more abundance into our life.
ON THE DAYS LEADING UP TO YOUR BIRTHDAY
Let what needs to go….go- Have you ever noticed that right before your birthday there was a breakup, a job change, a friendship ending or a pivotal life change? Initially, one might think “How could this be happening right before my birthday?"
The thing is though…when we enjoy a birthday, our numerology lessons shift into the next year’s number. You completed the lessons from this year and with this numerology shift, you welcome in a new set of priorities, lessons, and blessings. We have an entirely new slate of priorities and goals to accomplish based on your year’s numerology emphasis.
Some people, jobs or situations do not match this same set of requirements for the year and need to be released. If we cling to the past, we may forgo the blessings held for us for the next year. I can’t begin to count the number of jobs, situations or friendships to end or shift right before my birthday.
I used to say, “How could this be?" But now I say, “Thank goodness this cleared so I can welcome in even more that is in alignment with my true purpose.”
Bask in this knowingess and trust that if things shift before your birthday, it is meant to be and will serve as a blessing for you.
According to a powerful article on Medium, How to Harness the Power of your birthday and get ready for amazing changes in your life, following are the spiritual recommendations on how to draw in the most abundance in your life.
Rites to Perform One Week Before Your Birthday
Take all possible measures to pay off debts; both monetary and spiritual. Spiritual payoffs are just as important, if not more important, than monetary payoffs. Spiritual debts are the only debts that can follow you through multiple lifetimes.
Borrowed money? Pay it back
Someone has helped you out? Send them a thank you note
Someone hurt you? Employ radical forgiveness and allow your energetic frequency to raise. Radical forgiveness by Colin Tipping dives into this process and I will be unpacking this process in an upcoming podcast.
2. Completion – I am a manic woman the few weeks before my birthday completing work tasks, personal tasks and home tasks. Take care of the things weighing you down so you can raise your energetic vibration and enter into your next year abundantly.
3. Declutter. As you declutter, energy moves more swiftly through your home and life becomes more abundant in every aspect of your life based on the bagua map. Go through your closet, drawers, personal papers, and get rid of everything that you no longer need, or use. Also consider discarding any items that remind you of bad events, or relationships, or are associated with pain and sorrow. Burn them if necessary. Nothing feels quite as satisfying as burning painful items and releasing their attachment to you.
4. Clean up your house. Every day clean a new room. Enjoy the process and be sure to DUST!! Dust holds onto negative energy. Think of dust like a magnet. Negative energy is the combination of low vibe feelings, emotions and thoughts. Dust stagnates and limits your life. Grab your favorite feather duster and have fun!
5. Listen to beautiful music, soft sounds, and to some inspiring talks and interviews. This raises your energetic frequency and allows you to draw in more abundance into your life.
6. One of the evenings stay in solitude. Take a piece of paper, and write down your reflections of the past year and ask a few shadow work questions
Admit your mistakes and defeats.
Praise yourself for achievements.
List things you need to improve, such as your qualities, certain characteristics, or unfavorable behavioral patterns.
Shadow work-
What are your triggers and what caused them?
Are you happy with your life? How can it improve?
Detail your childhood and birthdays and nourish the highs and lows
7. On your birthday, in the morning, take a piece of paper or your journal:
Set your goals for the year
Break each goal into small steps and write an approximate plan for how you can achieve this goal.
Mark these steps in your calendar.
Things to Avoid on Your Birthday
Your birthday is the first day of your new numerology platform for the year- new focus, new priorities, new blessings. Therefore, do everything possible to protect yourself from anxieties, worries, stress, negativity, destruction, depression, sadness, and other low energies and vibrations.
Avoid conflicts.
Watch your language. As stated in the Monk who sold his Ferrari, profanity is an assault to the soul. Allow the highest vibe words possible to flow from your mouth on this first day of your year!
Abstain from borrowing anything. This sets up a belief of lack for your year. You have everything you need and you do not need to owe anyone anything!
Stay away from gossiping, and harsh judgments. Low vibe, refer to point #2 above.
Avoid negativity in all forms (i.e. negative news, energy vampires, etc.). You decide who you want to talk to and make a plan. I block people from being able to post on my social media. If someone knows me, they know I don’t want to ever communicate via those platforms, especially on my birthday. I only talk to the people I want to be involved in my upcoming year. You decide who is the right match for you and honor what feels right for you!
This Incredible article published on Minikar, How to Change your life for 12 days after your birthday, details the energy found on the 12 days following your birthday and makes these recommendations:
12 Days of your Birthday!!
These 12 days influence the upcoming 12 months and each day represents each of the months of your year. Beginning with your birthday month and moving forward. Pay close attention to what happens during these days and notice any guidance, signs or symbols that may be guiding you toward your highest potential.
Now is when you want to pull your calendar out and mark these days following your birthday to ensure you bring this guidance into action.
Join me for my Birthday Abundance Road Map Course HERE to dive into the 12 Day of Birthday Abundance!
Want an abridged version without all the fun personal stories included in the podcast? Join me for the Birthday Abundance Roadmap here today!
Forward this letter onto your birthday loved ones and help them draw in the best year of their life.
Much love,
Erin
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